How to elope as an LGBTQ+ couple in Scotland?

Planning your elopement can be daunting. Especially if you're planning to elope from abroad. In this post, as a Queer elopement photographer based in Scotland, I will help you through the steps and timeline, and give you all the information you need to get started with planning! What is the first step in planning your LGBTQ+ elopement in Scotland? Some people feel super overwhelmed and want to know - which supplier to book first...? Should you first find a date before reaching out to suppliers, or should we pick a location first... ? Trust me, I know how you feel! It is great if you have a date when you're reaching out to your suppliers, but it is not a must. A lot of the time, if you feel indecisive, they can give you all the pros and cons for eloping at different times of the year. We, elopement photographers, help with timelines and logistics when it comes to elopements - so it is totally okay to reach out when you do not have everything settled. 'Can I get legally married as an LGBTQ+ couple in Scotland?'

Yes - You have to submit a form at least 29 days before your date, and you need to have two witnesses. You can get married outside; you just need to hire a registered celebrant. Photographers are usually happy to act as witnesses!

' Is it safe for LGBTQ+ people in Scotland?' As a queer person who has been living in Scotland for the past 6+ years - yes. I have found that in Scotland, most people are open-minded and super welcoming. When I'm working with my beautiful queer couples, we have experienced many occasions of people congratulating them, smiling at us, and just generally kindness and joy being spread. However, I do want to admit that, of course, like everywhere in the world, there are unkind people, and sadly, practising vigilance and being cautious in certain situations is always best - for example, late at night. I also would like to say and highlight that I am very aware of my own privilege as a white and cis queer woman and how that affects my experience. Edinburgh has great queer clubs, regular drag nights and other community events, and smaller cities have a growing number of LGBTQ+ events as well.

' Who should we book first for our Queer Scotland elopement? - Getting started on planning your LGBTQ+ elopement'

Book the person first who is your priority! If you cannot imagine your elopement without a violinist you have been following for years online, book them first - you can book a date keeping their availability in mind - that is the great thing with elopements, you have a level of flexibility. However, I would definitely get a photographer on board quite early in the planning process, as a photographer can be a huge help with their knowledge and can help you make decisions.

' Can we have guests if we are eloping? ' In short - yes! Longer answer is, this is something that is debated within the wedding industry - some people would call anything with more than two witnesses a micro wedding, or small intimate wedding. Eloping is amazing because you set the rules!

' Outdoors adventure elopement - what to pack? ' Hiking boots, nice shoes for a few pictures/ceremony - if the location allows, warm layers -best to think of something you are happy to be included in the photos, a waterproof jacket, a hairbrush, water, and some snacks. Just a few things, but your photographer might send you a packing checklist to help you prepare!

' Scotland outdoor elopement - how can I hike in a wedding dress/suit? '

This is a really common question that comes up regularly, if you are thinking of wearing a more traditional outfit. Needless to say, there is no need to fit to the traditions - wear what you want, what feels like you, what makes you feel the best. However, if you decide to go with a suit or a wedding dress, first, there are amazing places that do not require long, difficult hikes and still have breathtaking views. You can always let your photographer know you want something that is moderate, easy, and they should find something that suits your needs.

On the other hand, some people do decide to go for something that is a little more challanging and it is worth it for them - just make sure you have comfortable shoes, plenty of water, and you are a confident hiker, be prepared for the weather to change quickly, safety first!